Thursday, April 17, 2025

How to get your home ready for Spring and Summer

 

It's spring. This means it is time to get your home cleaned and organized. Spring cleaning may seem daunting, but simplifying tasks makes it easier. 

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How to get your home ready for spring





1. Gather your cleaning items


Picture of cleaning supplies such a mop, spray bottle and other items
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Gather the items you will need to clean. You will need rags, a broom, a mop, sponges, and trash bags. Depending on what you will tackle, you may need more or fewer items. 

2. Declutter and toss 



 

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Declutter and toss the things you don’t need. Start with the room that you know needs the most decluttering. That way, you can take your time. Throw away things that are old or ruined. 

Things that you no longer need can be donated. Make sure these items are in good condition. Once you get rid of the clutter, you can clean. 

3. Clean your ceilings and walls 





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My grandmother would always start with the walls and ceilings. The explanation is straightforward. Starting from the top to bottom allows for the dust and cobwebs to hit the dirty floor. Floors should always be completed last. 

4. Dust items and clean storage spaces 






Dust and clean your surfaces. Dust all the items before you dust the surfaces. Once you finish, you can organize items. 


5. Organize your items 







Find the right storage for your space. Smaller spaces will need smaller containers, and flat storage containers work best. 



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6. Decorate the inside of your home  






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There are so many decorations you can have 

Fix Your Yard 











Once you fix the inside of your home, now you can focus on the outside. 



Rebuild your yard. 







1. Get grass, seed, fertilizer, and soil. You will need this to fix your yard. 

2. If you have any empty spots, you can fill them with vegetables, herbs, or flowers. You can start with bulbs, seeds, or potted plants. 

3. Add mulch

Add mulch to help with drainage or any cold weather that may occur. Mulch would also add color to your yard. 


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Conclusion

Spring cleaning will take time. Focus on the rooms that need the most attention. Take your time and do the best you can. 




Tips on cleaning your closet: 


Spring Cleaning Your Closet


Excellent Tips on Cleaning


How to organize your home: 


Organize Your Home


For those who have allergies


How to allergy-proof your home

Thursday, February 20, 2025

Review of A Wedding in the Lowcountry







Review of the Wedding in the Lowcountry by Preslaysa Williams


Adult General Fiction Romance Women’s Fiction

TW: Death of a parent, abandonment of a parent, abandonment of a significant other. 

Tropes: Second Chance, Childhood Friends to Lovers, Single Mother

Thank you to Net Galley, the publisher Avon, and Harper Voyager for this ARC in exchange for my honest opinion.


Brief introduction


The author of A Wedding in the Lowcountry is Preslaysa Williams. She is an award-winning Women's fiction author. She graduated from Columbia University and is an actress. 

Avila Rogers, a Black woman from South Carolina, is the main character in A Wedding in the Lowcountry. In her teens, she relocated and started college to study acting. She abandoned her acting dreams following a failed relationship with her child’s father. Avila also is estranged from her mother. 


Analysis



At the beginning of the book, you can tell that the main character is having a hard time with her finances. She’s trying to figure out how to pay her bills and her daughter's education. Ebony is inspired to be an actor; she is doing well in school and acting. Avila tries to make sure that Ebony has everything she needs to succeed. 

 Avila hopes her daughter can make it. I was quite surprised that she wanted Ebony to pursue a career she failed at accomplishing. While trying to manage her finances, she learns that her mother has died. 

Avila has not spoken to her mother for years because of the shame Avila felt in her life decisions, such as being an unwed mother. Her mother kicked her out for being pregnant. I wished the author had touched more on how the main female character felt about her mother kicking her out. 

The main character also feels ashamed that she did not become an actress. This is the main reason why she has not gone back home or talked to her mother. The author gives great insight into how it feels to be an actress, especially one that does not make it. 


 She returns to South Carolina to manage her mother’s funeral and estate matters. She finds an old boyfriend who lives in her hometown.

Avila wants to go through the funeral and sell the house. She needs someone to repair her mother’s home. Trevor offers to assist her. He often tries to show his feelings for Avila by showcasing his kindness through acts of service. Although she rejects his advances, she is still healing from a past relationship and trauma. The love Ebony finds with Trevor makes her incredibly happy. The town also wins her heart. However, Avila wishes to return to the city, leaving behind the painful memories and setbacks of her past.

Personal insights: 

                                                                                                               I found this book quite different from others I’ve read. The book does not have steamy love scenes. It was a romance that developed over time.  I believe the reason is that Avila has abandonment issues. 



Conclusion:                                                                                                                                                                                                          I give it 3 stars because I enjoyed reading the book. This is my first time reading anything from the Williams. I like the book, and I’d read more in the future. This book is good for those who love romance books with more yearning than physical chemistry.                                                                 

 



Where to find the book: on Amazon, Booksmillion


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Thursday, February 13, 2025

Books to Read This February and March

 


Books to Read This February and March 












February is Black History Month, you know. Women’s History Month is in March. Both months are an excellent opportunity to read books written by Black women. My platform features romance books by Black authors year-round. But today, I wanted to feature different genres, from Children’s Non-Fiction books to Romance. These books I have read, or I am reading. Some I even read more than once. My recommendations are based on my tastes and likes. I have read all these books this month or during this time of year.



  

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Children's Non-Fiction Book


Coretta Scott King by Ntozake Shange


Coretta Scott, by Ntozake Shange


Non-Fiction Book 

TW: Mentions the word Negro (the cultural term for Black people during that period). 

Representation: African American historical figures 

What the book is about: 


Coretta Scott King details her early years as a child. The author mentions how Coretta loved education and freedom, which led her to meet her husband, Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. 

This is an excellent book to read more than once to help students understand the concepts of the Civil Rights Movement and the unlawful laws during that period. 

Where to find the book: 

Coretta Scott King by Ntozake ShangeCoretta Scott, by Ntozake Shange




Little Melba and Her Big Trombones Story 


TW: Mentions Bullying 

Representation: African American historical figures 



Little Melba and Her Big Trombone, by Katheryn Russell-Brown

What the book is about: 

Little Melba and Her Big Trombones Story is about a real-life Trombone player named Melba Liston. The author starts the book by telling how Little Melba was born. The story continues by describing how Melba loved music and how she found her favorite instrument one faithful day.

It was excellent to read how Melba Liston discovered her love of music and the trombone. Visualizing historical figures as children is challenging, yet this book does it well.  

Where to find the book: 


Little Melba and Her Big Trombone, by Katheryn Russell-Brown





Rosa, by Nikki Giovanni


TW: Racism and mention of lynching. 

Representation: Historical Black figures 


What the book is about: 

This book would be better for older students even though it mentions from 0-8. But because of the length and reference of violence, it would be better for older students. 

Rosa, written by the late Nikki Giovanni (poet and activist), tells the story of Rosa Parks it starts with what happened the day Rosa Parks refused to give up her boycott in December 1953. I love how it talks about Rosa Parks's work and family life. It gives background to how she may have felt that day.  Giovanni also details what took place on that day and after. 



Aunt Harriet's Underground Railroad in the Sky 


TW: Slavery, Abuse, and Violence. 

 Representation: African American main characters, side characters, and historical figures. 


What the book is about: 


Two siblings (Bebe and Cassie) are flying into the sky and see an underground railroad in the sky. They meet Aunt Harriet (Harriet Tubman), and she discusses how she helped enslaved people take their freedom. Tubman also discusses what slavery was like for enslaved people. 



Aunt Harriet's Underground Railroad in the Sky, by Faith Ringgold

Misty Copeland talks about how she started in dancing school. She mentions how her teacher talked about a fairy tale. Misty fell in love with the dancing doll in the story. She practices dancing but realizes that her friend wants a role, too.  The story is a beautiful reminder of how friends can support each other. 

Aunt Harriet's Underground Railroad in the Sky by Faith Ringgold


Firebird by Misty Copeland 



Firebird, by Misty Copeland

What the book is about: 

It is about a girl who does not feel secure in her dancing. Until she receives encouragement to not give up but to keep growing. It is a beautiful reminder of how dreams take time to happen. But once we come to that place, we shine bright.


Where to find the book: 


Firebird, by Misty Copeland

Children's Fiction Books: 





Bronzeville Boys and Girls, by Gwendolyn Brooks





We are Shinning is written by Gwendolyn Brooks (poet) 

TW: It mentions fires and death. 

This book is about shining and accepting all children. Brooks wishes all the children were happy and excited. Has excellent pictures for children to see. 

Where to find the book: 


Bronzeville Boys and Girls, by Gwendolyn Brooks


Sulwe by Lupita Nyong'o


TW: Colorism, bullying

Representation: African main character and side characters 



Sulwe, by Lupita Nyong'o


Sulwe is written by Lupita Nyong'o, who is an Academy Award-winning actress. It discusses Sulwe, a girl who is darker than the rest of her family. She would be teased because of her complexion.  This causes them to feel insecure about her color. She learned to love herself to feel good about her complexion. She learned to celebrate the brightness in each other and how every shade is needed. 

Where to find the Book: 

Sulwe by Lupita Nyong'o

Women's Fiction:


Hitting a Straight Lick with A Stick 


Written by Zora Neal Hurston with an introduction by Genvieve West. 


Hitting a Straight Lick with a Crooked Stick : Stories from the Harlem Renaissance, by Zora Neale Hurston



The stories in this book are engaging and humorous. If you are from the South, these characters and jokes may remind you of stories your grandparents told you. I know personally I have heard stories and people like this. Even though there are stories of people doing the dozens, they are serious topics discussed. Hurston explores the themes of class, race, abuse, and misogyny. Some topics may be triggering, especially the topics of racism, violence, and abuse. The stories that stood out to me were John Redding Goes to Sea, The Conversion of Sam, and Black Death. 

Where to find the book: 


Hitting a Straight Lick with a Crooked Stick: Stories from the Harlem Renaissance, by Zora Neale Hurston

The Source of Self-Regard by Toni Morrison 



The Source of Self-Regard : Selected Essays, Speeches, and Meditations, by Toni Morrison


The Self Regard is a collection of essays and reflections by Toni Morrison. She discusses various topics such as slavery, globalism, politics, sexism, racism, and many other topics. Each topic, regardless of the period being discussed, reminds me that times have changed, but people have not. Her words show that we are all still human. 

"No more apologies for a bleeding heart when the opposite is no heart at all. The danger of losing our humanity must be met with more humanity. Otherwise, we stand meekly behind Eris, hold Nemesis’s cloak, and genuflect at the feet of Thanatos."

— Toni Morrison (The Source of Self-Regard: Selected Essays, Speeches, and Meditations)



Where to find the book The Source of Self-Regard



All About Love by bell hooks 


All about Love : New Visions, by Bell Hooks



bell hooks discussed what she believes is love, and we often try to search for it. She discusses how the younger generation is cynical about love. 

Some may not agree with her assessment or definition of love but I do believe we can all agree love is something that is needed now more than ever. 


All about Love : New Visions, by Bell Hook




Spend My Life with You is a romantic tribology that focuses on the Richardson Siblings. 

One of the siblings is getting married. While at the wedding, Thad and Drea get together. There are some love scenes in the book. 

Where to find the book: 

Spend My Life with You By Monique Fisher



The Build Up 


The Build Up, by Tati Richardson


Representation: Black Female and Male Main Characters, Black Side characters, Black family

TW: Colorism, Racism, Fatphobia, sexism, 

The main female character is Ari James. James is a fat, sexy Black woman who is an architect who landed a job at a new firm. Her first day was rough, and now she has to work with a partner. Her partner is Porter Harrison. He is handsome. He has his eyes on being a partner, but he also has his eyes on Ari James. Both need to focus on this large project that can take them to new heights in their careers. Can they be successful in their project and form a relationship?


The chemistry and yearning between the two characters were good. I was happy when they finally started seeing each other. I really love how Tati wrote a man who adored a fat Black woman and was not afraid to show it. I enjoyed the book.

I know some people will not enjoy the colorism that is mentioned. But that is a reality for Dark skin Black women, especially in America. I also know that some do not like the sexism in the book. The main character is in a male-dominated field, which means she will face hardships of sexism from her male peers.

Where to find the book: 

The Build Up, by Tati Richardson




Conclusion: 

Overall, these are suggestions for books to read. Some of them you may find interesting if you are open-minded to hearing a different opinion or life than your own. I enjoyed hearing the different perspectives and learning more about myself. I also learned more about others, and I realized that we have more in common than we think. 

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